I'm 54, having a mid-life event...not really a crisis...but change is all about and I'm having some trouble adjusting. Want to be sexy and cute again....and it's tough.
I'm writer but I do a lot of other things too. Enjoy traveling especially to the Caribbean (which is why I want to be sexy and cute again).
I'm self sufficient..have finally gotten over the "need to have a man in my life" phase. I'm happy with me (and my cat of course. She's my long suffering, non complaining buddy)
I'm overwhelmingly aching to be healthy..arthritis sometimes limits my activities and I know that will improve dramatically with steady weight loss. I've been over 300 lbs and under 150 over the years...so I've gained and lost a whole person many times.
My goal now...is to get to a healthy weight. In my mind that's 150 lbs. I'm in no rush but I do want to see steady progress.